Success Over Survival

 

Dismantling the identity and personality you’ve built around your pain, relationships, and circumstances can be really fucking scary.

You are who you are in this very moment from an internal desire to survive.

Which is meaningful and a huge deal.
And deserves acknowledgement and gratitude.

But what if you didn’t have to survive anymore?

Meaning, instead of relying on external means and factors to prove something about you, your worth and love is determined internally.


What if you found a little bit of courage and someone to be with you while you navigated elevating from your survival mechanism into your success mechanism?


What if you could release the weight and lie of shame keeping you feeling depressed and unworthy of the life and love you desire?

(Shame isn’t often something we can put a finger on, but it’s the feeling that you are bad, wrong, undeserving because of something you did—or didn’t—do, a belief or desire you have, etc.)


What if you could intentionally move the intensity of rage, anger, grief so when the floodgates open, they aren’t overwhelming to experience anymore; you know how to regulate in real time for healthy emotional expression?


What if you were able to actually feel worthy from the inside out, and no longer got defensive from feeling criticized or judged or less-than from someone else’s behavior?


What if you had so much confidence and self-assurance, felt so supported by your purpose, vision, mission, and other elevated people in your life, that what the nay-sayers think/say/do no longer impacts you or diminishes your value/worth?


What if you were able to envision the most idealized version of yourself and actually be him?


All of this is possible.

It takes a tremendous amount of courage and strength to do this work. To be honest. Take responsibility. Dive into shadow work. Make necessary changes. Live a life of integrating and fulfillment based on your standards, desires.

Courage and strength I know you have.

Are you ready to answer the call?
Are you ready to be THE man?
Are you ready to create the life and love you desire?

 
 
 
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